my daughter-in-law's brother is a colonel and -- colonel and he apologized for having many years when we would talk on the phone -- there are differences between the military and the civilian culture. if you complain, the if you go for help, i may get demoted, you know there is -- one that wrote that we not only need more psychologists and social workers, we need to change the organization and the attitude towards the soldiers. >> at the same time that we are dealing with this suicide epidemic in the military, july being the worst month, you also have the issue of rapes in the military. i tell the story of suzanne twist and her mother, sarah rich. tell us what happened. >> host: suzanne, first of all, she was courted by the military. they kept calling her and calling her. a lot of these folks are part of military families anyway and treated her well and promising her she won't get deployed sort her mother was proud of her and then the minute she deployed to iraq, the guy above her says, let's just have a date, let's just be together and she said what? what do you mean? he said let's n